Loving People + a Call for Questions

Our church has been going through the book of 1 John since September and what I am about to share has been on my heart for just as long, if not longer. 1 John talks about JOY. Not the surface level feeling that can be manufactured or produced, but the joy that results in a state of satisfaction, a state of strength and power, a casting out of fear if you will. This type of joy cannot be stolen by circumstance.

In 1 John 1: 1-3 we are lovingly told that joy comes through relationship and fellowship with God and other believers. When we live in sin, it breaks down these relationships.

Fellowship with other believers is so important to a full life in Christ. Even though I know this, I often times fail miserably. 

I like to blame this on being an introvert, but I think I sometimes use that as an excuse. I've really been asking myself lately: How is my relationship with other believers? Is it regular and deep? Do we keep each other accountable for the hard things and love each other despite our shortcomings?

I think my answer to many of these questions is, "sometimes." I don't like that. I mean, it's easy to love the people that are easy to love. To have fellowship with friends who put forth equal effort and make time for you in their lives. It's not so easy to love those that sometimes act unlovable, say offensive things, or really cause you pain. I struggle with forgiveness, which really makes it hard to love people. Even those who are fellow believers.

I want to be that person that loves people. Not because I think it will make my life easier, or because I think it will make me popular, but because I want to experience that JOY that John tells us about. And I want to be able to share that joy with people that don't know it yet.

Can we really truly be connected with God and not love others? I don't think so. That's where this whole thing gets me. Sometimes it's easy to be hateful for annoyed with people, but that only pushes me further away from God in the end. I pray that God changes my heart, because in the end this is only hurting me.

What are you struggling with?


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  1. yep, i am right there with you Cassie. if we could love each other the way God intended, there would be no sin. That's the greatest commandment: love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind. yet we don't love, we turn away, gossip, lie, get angry, etc (i have lots).....so there is sin. the second greatest commandment: love your neighbor as yourself. so again.....we don't. so ......so.....hard. (sobbing emoji)

    thanks for the reminder! Love ya!

  2. I've been praying God would teach me patience and kindness lately. I work with a lot of people and that lends itself to a lot of misunderstanding and anger. I want to respond to those interactions with mercy and love instead of the best angry response I can think of. It's hard, but it's GOOD.

  3. Gosh, I can so relate to this, thank you for "going there" - not only reminding me of how important it is to connect with other believers on a deeper level but for reminding me that I'm not alone in forgetting (or ignoring) this. It's something I crave but at times have such a hard time really doing. That trust thing is hard!

  4. I can completely relate. Sometimes I just don't feel like being intentional and I hate that..

  5. YES IT IS. I'll join in praying with you for both of us in those areas :)

  6. Love you too friend, thanks for sharing your wisdom

  7. YES to this. We must be vulnerable and share even our ugly parts with others. Not to bring each other down but to live in joy together. Thank you for sharing friend!

  8. Thank you for taking the time to read and remind me I'm not alone in this struggle!


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